This made me chuckle but only for your wisdom Triple R. We had that Deere something guy here that was a bit prickly much of the time, was getting married which I really hope went well, trashtalked his local firemen and took some serious online bashing back on that. And deserved it, but got upset enough I believe he either left in a huff or was given the three month hook. And then I think came back under another name and again there was unhappiness when advice given wasn't appreciated and not enough attention apparently was being paid to that individual, in their opinion.
I think a smart man gathers a lot of opinions and facts, if one has the time... and then makes a decision
The only exception to this would be the instant recognition of the way it's going to be when your wife is talking to you...