Great feedback from you all, thank you.
I have not bypassed the cooler in the radiator. Right now all the cooling system is stock. I'll have to look into the fist/second gear lockup if I still have a cooling issue after replacing my stock air/oil cooler with a 26 row cooler from a 6.0 PSD. I never have a cooling issue on the highway. The hottest it ever got was going over the 4000' pass between Oregon and California. Pulling 12,500 pounds up 6% it only got to 195 degrees. Granted when I did this it was about 35 degrees out.
F3506 - I don't think there is a fluid flow problem causing the ability to not lock the TC in first gear, my take is that the pump the manufacturer put in the vehicle does not flow enough ATF to allow the safe lockup of the TC in first gear so the computer doesn't let it happen. If I am wrong someone please correct my understanding.
Handirifle - Yes, when it was rebuilt I had a low stall, "RV" TC put in made for diesel engines that pull heavy loads. They also put in heavy duty clutches to handle the load that I told them I pull. I am going to try the larger cooler first, if I still have a problem, and there is room, I'll look to install a fan.
CJONE - I hope to attain the temps you are getting when I switch out my cooler. Everything is basically fine until I get to the hill where I live. It is a 600' climb at a much steeper grade than I ever encounter on the interstates. I am guessing it might be a 10% grade. The truck slows way down when I hit this hill.
Thanks again guys. I am picking up the new cooler today and hope to install it this weekend.
Blane