You should block that loader somehow or bleed it down.
Pump turning is a wild goose chase.. The loader should drop when the valve opens..
Thus:
Valve is stuck
Hyds are deadheaded both directions, lil from a pair of uncoupled qd's
Mechanical loader linkage jammed solid
Never answered about quick connect fittings on the hoses. Do you have any?
i think i'd block the loader and use a jack to tape pressure off, and then undo hoses and get a bucket.
then run the controls thru their range and see if the proper hoses swap between dump and lift, depending on which way the spool is pushed.