A few years back while remodeling some of the one bedroom apartments we used to own, every Friday I saw tenants coming home with a case of beer under one arm and a carton of cigarettes in the other hand. Those were the same tenants who constantly complained about how hard it was to pay the high rents while driving more expensive cars than mine.
A number of years ago a friend asked me if I would help deliver Christmas baskets for his church.
We loaded up my Safari van and started to go around to these low income needy people with their food baskets.
I do admit there were some that were in genuine need. They tended to be older.
The rest I would never give the steam off my pee on a cold day.
One couple we brought in their basket because the boy friend was too drunk to bring in the basket and still pounding back beers. In the kitchen their were a couple cartoons of cigarettes, 3 cases of beer, a half eaten tray of pizza and another Christmas basket.
I mentioned this to my friend because they were only allowed to apply for one.
Couldn't do anything aboot it.
Now I don't donate to any of these food drives.
You see the people receiving them on the news and they are huge, covered in tats with a herd of nasty kids. F it! I'm not enabling that.
Every year you see some church/organization having a meal and the people are 300lbs saying they wouldn't have a hot meal without this.
You didn't get to Manatee size just from breathing.