Then I suggest you dont get on the wrong side of my wife /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif
Never said you had to own one or 12, its you choice to do or not.
My wife was a city girl and was afraid of them. I never pushed her but after I was heading to the range about every other weekend (pre kids, I had time to do fun things) she decided to come along. Took about 2 shots for her to get over the fear, and about 3 weekends till she bought her own handgun. It wasnt a good fit for her so she tried my 1911 45. Put 4 out of 5 in the black at 25 yds and asked if I would give it to her. I said no, buy your own. She traded the other one for a 1911 and has been a shooter since.