Most homes are single phase and many gens are 3 phase, this leads to unbalance loads and loss of 1/3 of rating. Some 12 wire heads can be rewired but efficiency is down compared to a dedicated 4 wire single phase.
I choose a 30kva Mecc-Alte dedicated single phase with digital voltage regulator, hooked to a 3cyl turbo Perkins no ECU diesel. This allows very low tech no controller operation using cutoff water and oil sensors.
Or you can go digital with Deep Sea 7320 MKII controller which will run a transfer switch via Utility monitoring, maintenance cycles and using resistor sensor on water, oil, fuel. Which will run auto tank refills from 55 gallon drums.
Next is sound case PDG builds nice Alum/Stainless powder coat cases with input and output baffles and sound deadening liner.
Using a dumb generac 200 amp trx switch
I like the way you think !
Do you do this for a living, or just have good taste in expensive hobbies ?
Rgds, D.