Well, we made it to three dealers today. Here are my impressions given the feedback you all have provided and the published specs:
Kioti CK20 - Dealer: He seemed to be knowledgeable, asked questions, explained about service, parts, history, locations, etc. He seemed to be hungry. The dealer is about 20 miles away. Ergonomics: I am 6'1 and my girlfriend is 5'4". She will use it as much as I will. We did not have to make any seat adjustments to switch between each of us. It was very comfortable with easy reach to all controls, especially the FEL controls. The single pedal for forward reverse worked ok for both of us. She preferred this arrangement as compared to side by side and I like side by side better, but can live with this. The throttle seemed a little hard to slide forward/back. Maybe it was overtightened as it was new or will loosen slightly with use. This was only an issue for her. The unit feet great otherwise. The controls worked smoothly. Specs/Use: Of the units that I am listing here, this is about middle of the road in terms of lifting capacity, dimensions, 3PH, etc. We liked that it had position control.
Kioti CS2410: Dealer: same as above. Ergonomics: This felt really nice as well. Definitely smaller in size but still comfortable. No clutch, similar to the Max25. Side by side pedals for forward/reverse. Turning radius was great, power seemed to be really nice. Definitely lower ground clearance but I would expect that from this size. Could be a problem with some 3PH attachments we can envision such as post hole diggers. Specs/Use: This unit was much closer to the BX below. For the $2,000 difference, I would probably go for the CK20 IF Kioti is the final make we choose.
Mahindra Max25 - Dealer: The dealer is really far away as in you almost can't get there from here. The dealer was certainly knowledgeable for the locals but the man we spoke to seemed uncomfortable with our silly questions. He did not offer too much information and it felt like we had to drag it out of him. Ergonomics: This unit required adjustments for each of us to use. The FEL controls felt really awkward to reach that far to use them. She liked the throttle better on this one as it was a horizontal handle that you pull like the old column shifter in cars. The other controls seemed ok. Specs/Use: The unit was clearly the strongest of the bunch and I can see why you all have said to check the specs but compare apples to apples.
Kubota BX2360: Dealer: The dealer was a little closer and certainly easier to get to. He was knowledgeable in explaining the model we directed him to but did not ask too many questions and did not really explain the differences between the B and BX series. Ergonomics: We both felt comfortable in this one without any adjustments. The unit had the smoothest operating controls, especially the FEL. She had some problems with changing from Low to High ... would engage cleanly without nudging the pedals. She preferred the clutch on the Kioti CK20. I can see why people like these so much. Specs/Use: The listed capacities on this are clearly at the low end of the bunch and could be a deal breaker.
Oh ... quoted prices BEFORE haggling:
CK20HST - $13,276
CS2410 - $11,238
Max25 - $14,000
BX2360 - $13,200
Sound reasonable?
I still have a few more to look at. So far, the CK20 is at the top of our list as a good compromise between features, ergonomics, dealer, price.