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No matter how mad, sad, or upset I get, she is a good woman and wife.
'Til Tomorrow.....[/QUOTE]
You sir are on a correct track. This is a matter of choice. What starts out so obvious relationship wise, can get skewed in so many ways later on down the road. In other words, there are no guarantees. What makes your assertion so healthy is the fact that you do not have to take this so personally. This is something she did for her and not necessarily to you. You will not get toxic with your present attitude. She may be thinking the grass is greener if indeed there was not something overt that ended this relationship. This same thing also happened to a buddy of mine. His biggest problems began when she came back as she was still restless. People are funny. We are not hard to figure out as a species, its just that we hide ourselves from each other. Take each day at a time because each day can take an unexpected twist. What you had Rutwag, even though it was shorter in duration than you liked, was better than a lot of marriages that last 40 years of which the last 32 were miserable. One day you'll hold your head high, mainly because you'll be more attractive that way. Of course their might be the twist down the line of your wife finding out it takes a **** of alot more water to keep the grass greener if indeed that is why she scooted.. As I said, life is funny.
'Til Tomorrow.....[/QUOTE]
You sir are on a correct track. This is a matter of choice. What starts out so obvious relationship wise, can get skewed in so many ways later on down the road. In other words, there are no guarantees. What makes your assertion so healthy is the fact that you do not have to take this so personally. This is something she did for her and not necessarily to you. You will not get toxic with your present attitude. She may be thinking the grass is greener if indeed there was not something overt that ended this relationship. This same thing also happened to a buddy of mine. His biggest problems began when she came back as she was still restless. People are funny. We are not hard to figure out as a species, its just that we hide ourselves from each other. Take each day at a time because each day can take an unexpected twist. What you had Rutwag, even though it was shorter in duration than you liked, was better than a lot of marriages that last 40 years of which the last 32 were miserable. One day you'll hold your head high, mainly because you'll be more attractive that way. Of course their might be the twist down the line of your wife finding out it takes a **** of alot more water to keep the grass greener if indeed that is why she scooted.. As I said, life is funny.