Thanks again for the assist Dave. I had a 2" knock out put in at the center of the rear foundation wall about 1-2 inches off the floor that's well below 5 feet from grade. I planned to put the expansion tank in this general area. My concern is with the pipe freezing in that first five feet south of the where the pipe enters the house.
My guess is that (and it's just a guess) the downward slope you guys mentioned should extend to the entry point in the well casing in order to get the water in the line away from the house regardless of whether there's a drain back valve. Unless of course the valve release is strong enough to suck all the water back down??? Do you know of any issues with these valves failing? I try to hew toward simple in these designs if possible.
I had trouble getting the foundation drain to daylight, running into some kind of shale (sedimentary) ledge along the way. I hope I don't hit the same thing here. And the PVC conduit sounds like a good idea.
All the points you raise about monitoring the place have entered my thoughts at one time or another. I had a draw string installed for a land line and there's WIFI available from a local broadband provider. I haven't decided on what to do yet with that. Until then, the diamonds and furs will be traveling back and forth with us...

