Last time this happened to me it got complicated. I'm a welder/fabricator so I had a pretty sturdy box and post (post was two sections of 1.5" x 1/8 wall square tube welded together with cross bars). Graduation night two kids take their fathers new pickup out for some fun, ran over my mailbox...which destroyed the mailbox and post....but jammed under the truck causing them to continue into my large dry laid stone wall...which in turn destroyed the truck.
They managed to leave the scene in the limping truck I guess. I called the police etc., two days later they kids show up with their father after having gotten arrested for the damage they did to boxes prior to mine. They were handing out fresh 50's to compensate their victims. I had a talk with the kids, asked them if I had ever done anything to them, I was real straight up with them cause I did some stupid stuff when I was young too. At the end I told them and the father I didn't want any money, I could make another myself cheap enough...but to just remember the righteous way I treated them, and to try to treat others the same way. However the father insisted I take $150, I didn't want to take it because I knew it was HIS money, not THEIRS. But he continued to insist so I did.
I got the distinct impression that the lesson their father was teaching them was that money always make up for your irresponsibility. Maybe I was naive, but I wanted the kids to go away feeling like they had done a friend wrong, not that some money had made everything all better.
JohnnyB