I have over 15k miles on my 2011 XLT 4X4 3.73 SC with Max tow and HD and 8' box.and use it as a long distance deliverer of myself as a professional and as a farm truck on my time off.
Its quiet.
It handles great and rides great.
Its quiet.
The controls in the cab work like velvet.
Sync is flawless...I suspect those who find it is not so are not computer literate.
I put in 3 way pioneers and the sound is sensational.
I get between 17.5 -20.7 pending my mood and weather.
Remote start aftermarket is the way to go...absolutely delicious up here in the winter. It tows easily, and with 8,900# on my 16' trailer the bumper doesn't even drop at all. It pulls this so easy you think you left it behind.
There are a lot of good trucks...but for me...I would be hard pressed to order something different...maybe if all above and I got 30 mpg.
Thanks for the update Ham. It's nice to get feedback from people who have really used their trucks as intended. It sounds like you have a keeper.