I don't know how old this thread is, if you have your answers and gone ahead, or still contemplating. If you are still thinking it over, here's what I would do. If fill inside the existing pole building is at the correct level (in other words it is about 6 inches lower than you want the finished floor) and has been compacted properly, level it with a laser and a garden rake, put a release/expansion strip (guys here call it buffalo board) on the perimeter wood of the inside of the building, right up to the height you want the top of the slab (great use for a laser), next lay down a poly layer to stop moisture from migrating up into the building from the damp ground below, then a layer of XPS foam, at least an inch, three if you plan to heat the building, then set up your 1/2" bar on 2 foot centers grid, wired together at every other (at least) intersection, set up on 1 1/2" - 2" tall chairs, add some more grade stakes of rebar, stick thru the foam and pounded into the ground until their tops are the correct hieght for the top of the slab (you drive these down after referencing them during the pour). Thicker at edges is a great idea for a number of reasons: driving on and off, general extra strength and stiffness to resist forces trying to crack off a corner, adds a bit of frost prevention, especially if you put some vertical insulation around the outside of that thick edge. Pour 5 1/2" of 4000 - 4500 psi air entrained concrete, and have it power troweled to a fairly smooth surface. The trick is to stop before its so smooth it gets slipery when wet, but it ends up smooth enough to sweep without too much effort. I like to add application of Ashford formula to it after a month, so you are sealing and actually improving durability instead of pouring money into a sealer that will wear off over time and does nothing to strenghten anyway.
If any of what I recommend above seems wrong for your region, I won't argue with you about it, but at least I made you think about it. I have poured six buildings now, for storage sheds, garages and workshops, and this last one is the best of all the lessons I learned. It contains every step listed above basically. Good luck.
PS, in our area work is generally quoted at about $3 per square foot for material and labor. Assuming minimal site prep. Assuming they don't have to lay your foam and assuming you will do a better job on these details than they will anyway.