Thanks to all..i finally got to it a bit..i changed oil with a quart of engine flush cleaner,basically fancy kerosene,,ran it and i got a few drops of antifreeze out of blowby...changed oil and filter proper,ran it for a while and got no antifreeze and less smoke out of blowby,,still a few drops of milky dirty goo...motor runs quiet!!...all my gauges are out,,i think tstat works...