I'm 48. I'm on board with the "overstuffed file cabinet' theory. My problems are with teen aged kids having us run 5 nights a week plus working 50-60 hours a week, I can't get organized, let alone things done. I always try to get organized. I've built shelves, storage doors, vertical drawers, all to organize my things to find them when I need them. The very few things I get put in their place, I look for over hours because my norm is "disorganized". Then, after wasting hours looking, I think "I'd never have put that thing where it belongs", and there it sits waiting.
Last month, I decided to line my tool box drawers. I swore up and down I had a roll of liner. Looked for an hour. Didn't find it. So, on my next trip, the spiral notebook said "DRAWER LINER". I grabbed a roll. Promptly upon my return, I took it to my workshop, set it down by a roll already there. I thought "wow... I knew I had a roll. So I moved them to another location, where TWO additional rolls were waiting to keep them company. Now I have enough to line my own underwear as I forget to go inside to use the bathroom.