k0ua
Epic Contributor
As a point of clarification, are you saying that you've needed and drawn your weapon outside your position as a LEO? Did you also fire it at the threat, hit and kill or take down the threat?
My philosophy is "don't start no sh*t, ain't going to be no sh*t". I'm not in fear for my life when I go to the store or the post office. We have plenty of crazies in my town who are either nuts or on drugs or both. I walk down the street aware, but not fearful even though I don't have a weapon on me. My wife locks the front door the first thing when she comes into the house. I don't, because I think the chances of being robbed in my home are statistically insignificant to even worry about. My wife has a couple of softball bats strategically placed in the house, along with a couple of guns because she fears being robbed or worse. The defensive items will likely never be used for that purpose, but she feels better knowing they are there.
It's a glass half full or half empty situation. You either feel the world is a fearful and dangerous place, or you don't. I know that bad things happen to good people on occasion and if you look for the bad, you will likely find it. I was in the fire service for 25 years and I know we can have a different outlook from LE. It makes sense to me, just given the type of job we do. I don't know if the job influences the mindset, or the mindset influences which path we pursue. It would be an interesting PhD thesis for some psych major.
I did not have to fire the handgun.
Well, it is just that I have seen those bad things happen to those good people. And I know it could happen to me. Of course the odds are low. The odds of having a fire in your kitchen are pretty low too unless you are an idiot. But I have an extinguisher there too, and one in the shop too. Yeah I lock the doors, and try to always maintain a situational awareness.
I know the world is both simultaneously a dangerous and fearful place, with wolves in it and at the same time I know the chances are low that any one individual sheep will be taken by the wolves. You can't go through life worrying about when and if the wolves will ever come to your door. (One came to mine already, so I guess my chances for another one are slimmer?).
So be prepared and don't worry is my method. Or you can use your method and not be prepared and not worry. The choice is up to the individual. It don't make me no nevermind. Please tell your wife that I think she is a very wise lady.
I will tell you this much, when it happens, it happens quick, and it is "unbelievable". There are people on this earth that would like nothing more than to kill you personally right this minute. And they would enjoy watching you die. And then they would brag about it to their friends. Yes those people are very few and far between. The vast majority of people are very good. Some are just so so, but a few are really bad. As for your sh*t philosophy, it will work up to a point. In other words if you avoid trouble all of your life, you will have a lot less trouble. But come the day, no matter how much you don't want it, trouble will find you. And nothing short of being prepared will save you. If that day ever comes, I hope your wife saves you..