The OP is going to be a master of hydraulic fittings by the time he's half way done with this project.
He's also going to learn about relief valves, pressure ports, return ports, power beyond, flow dividers, flow controls, hose sizes, and hose pressure ratings.
BIG safety tip: DO NOT use plumbing fittings for hydraulics. Especially cast iron. Plumbing fittings are rated to about 200 psi. Make sure you are using real hydraulic fittings rated to something over whatever your relief pressure is. Your relief pressure needs to be set lower than the lowest rated part in your system. So if you have ONE part, fitting, or hose rated to 1000 psi, guess what, that should be your max for everything. Especially for stuff on ebay, where there are a bunch of cylinders rated dual use air and hydraulic, but only good for a few hundred pounds pressure.
It can be helpful to put a pressure gauge on the input to your valves, where you can see it as you are running. With the system not doing anything, you should not see much pressure at all (assuming you are designing an "open center" system). Even with a relief valve, you can get a pressure spike if you don't have your return to tank set up correctly or there is a block somewhere. You typically will not see the pressure start to rise until the system is working. A cylinder trying to move beyond its full travel counts as work, the pressure will spike up to the relief pressure.
It does not take very long at all for a part working over its rated pressure for something to get damaged. It does not always fail visibly or spectacularly, sometimes it will just cause internal leaks and poor performance...other times there will be sprays of oil at high pressure. If you get oil sprayed under your skin, this is a medical emergency, like 911 and not "maybe I'll try to see my doctor tomorrow."
There is also a hydraulics forum on TBN. Those guys are a great resource if you want to check your system designs as you go.