I am also a member of the "funny top link cylinder club". I guess I'm of the opinion that, if I need to "stiffen" the cylinder, I will raise the 3PT fully then SLOWLY extend the top link cylinder making sure to not introduce any air. May need to do this several times and the results seem to be only a temporary fix. I also have added restrictor fittings.
As ovrszd mentions above, there is a difference with issues depending whether extending and retracting. The issues encountered with top link cylinders and FEL bucket cylinders may have some similarity due to the fact they are normally extended under load.
Industrial hydraulic presses, shears and brakes use what is called a counterbalance valve for several reasons including safety as well as not pulling a vacuum when lowering the ram. They all, or most, extend the cylinders on the downstroke same as a top link cylinder. There is a lot to be said for pilot operated checks on a top link setup especially on the rod end port.
Maybe someone needs to design a top link cylinder that extends rather than retracts under load??????