This is a perception issue, there is no inflection or body language perceived, the words are taken at face value. Picture yourself sitting around a campfire at the deer lease while reading the replies or comments, helps to picture one of your close friends making the statement, because you have given them a little more leeway because they are your friends.
Sometimes, I have to unplug from the media, both sides, Facebook, Twitter and even texting. Now would be a good time to go get some seat time and unplug/uncork and the replies, good, bad or otherwise, will seem a little less worrisome.