You are right - strantor. I just can not imagine being saddled with the costs involved in a college education and then taking on a home mortgage. Top it all off by deciding the job you finally hooked deserves a BMW, Mercedes or the like. When I finished college - I had no loan to pay off. I worked HARD during the summers so that I could pay cash as I went thru college.
Young folks, today, simply have a completely different reality.
I'm retired. I retired early ( at age 42 ) because financially I could. I have no financial encumbrances other than normal monthly bills. No loans, no mortgages.
The wife and I scrimped and went thru H*ll during our working years so that retirement would be this way.
It's very sad to see the country going the way that it is.
My parents & my wife's parents, both went thru the depression. We were both well taught on the value of a dollar and to save for retirement.
I am not the stereotypical Millennial. I am 34 y/o and fairly well off for someone of my generation; especially considering I have no college degree. I've worked my tail off, built a family and a small business, and sacrificed much to be where I am, making 3x the average income for my age group. I've never owned a new vehicle in my life. The newest I've ever had was a 5 y/o Ford Focus, the flashiest was a Pontiac Firebird (when I was 20), and the nicest is the 10y/o Yukon (SLT) that I'm driving now. My only toy is my tractor, while other folks I know around my age who make half what I do, have driveways full of boats, big trucks, 4-wheelers, etc.
I work hard and forego the niceties, striving for financial independence, and it's always just out of reach; dangled in front of me. I'm no closer to it now than I was a decade ago; further behind actually, after cashing out a 401k start my business. The finish line keeps moving. These thumb rules feel like cruel taunts, but I know the reality is that they're just remnants, ghosts of a more prosperous time, and the people still offering them mean no insult, they're just living in the past. I have to consciously remind myself of that.
I gave the example of the stereotypical Millennial because that's the norm. Using myself as an example wouldn't be very relevant. I sometimes wonder if I've really got things figured out, or if the stereotypical ones are the ones with the right idea. They're actually enjoying their lives. I'm living like a pauper, striving for a goal that all the evidence points toward being unattainable. I could, maybe I should, just this once, have something nice for myself... Nah, this thread is probably a waste; I'll probably end up backing out of buying a new truck at the last minute just like I've done every time I got "serious" about getting one for the past 10 years.