I gotta keep an eye on my wife!
Her apple didn't fall far from her father.
Years ago, her father was somewhere like the local Co-Op.... Some dude comes to him and says he's on hard times....would he (father in law) like to get a bargain on a diamond ring... (first flag should go up)... Oh, it IS a sparkly and pretty ring (keep in mind my wife at the time worked at a jewelry store and could get him anything with her discount)
Oh, the ring is worth ????..... but I'll let you have it for $400.
Father in law who was looking for coveralls or diesel or something in a different world.... goes & gets $400 and gives it to his girlfriend (wife had passed).
My Wife blew her stack. He's a "sucker for a bargain" (remember comment about apple not falling far from tree, we'll get there)
She pointedly told him she could have gotten him a much better ring for the same money.....then she tested....and of course it's a CZ so it's not even a diamond. She said they'd probably retail that for $125.... so he got royally screwed.
Fast forward a couple years, my wife calls me at work (so I can't talk & yak on phone with her) "OMG, Richard.... some guys drove up and offered to pave our driveway for us!!! They said they were paving a local job and had more material than they could use....would we like to have our driveway paved"
You could just TASTE her excitement over the phone (did she have thoughts of her Father's sucker-ism wafting in her head at this moment??? Nope)
In very blunt no-uncertain words, I told her the answer is an emphatic "NO" and furthermore, to tell those dudes in the truck that they're trespassing and to turn around and leave this very instant"
She started with the "but, but, but..." and was going to remind me what a DEAL it was....
Sigh.
Held my ground very sternly and they left. I still have a gravel driveway. If I ever did anything, I'd much rather drop concrete than asphalt.