Thanks John. I specifically removed the trailer ground, took my driller w circular wire brush and really gave the ground area a real good cleaning to the metal. Then did the same w the washers and bolt that holds in the wire. I then removed the exposed portion of wiring on the ground, removed the white insulation and exposed fresh wire, then put it all back. It's getting a good clean ground for sure.
The problem is I cannot keep the wire harness head securely attached to the trailer receptacle. Furthermore, as pointed out, the grd pin seems to be oxidized, but I cannot test it anyway as is...guess I am going to have to splice on a new harness cap and replace the receptacle. Unless someone has a better solution, I believe that is where i am...