Dear Prudence,
I’m struggling. I’m feeling a strong connection to the Amish, and I would love to dig deeper into this feeling. I feel the urge to join them, but I feel as though it is disrespectful and I’m not sure I am ready. I also don’t want to be judged by my friends and family for converting to the Amish lifestyle. AND I really love having a phone and car and shower and makeup and cute clothes, so is there a way that I can join the Amish but keep everything I already have? I basically just want to farm and not pay taxes. HELP!!!!
— Amish Wannabe
Dear Amish Wannabe,
Look, I get it. Life in 2023 is expensive and draining. What I’m hearing in your letter is a feeling of being overstimulated, overwhelmed, and desperate to unplug and simplify your existence. But leave the Amish out of it! They are busy, and don’t need you and your cute clothes complicating their lives. It sounds like you could use a one-week camping trip. Try that and reevaluate.
I can’t help you with the taxes.
Interesting feature with a door to the porch roof. Was that so you could sit on the roof on summer nights when it was hot & stuffy inside?
That's an awesome picture of that house!!!! I'd have that framed hanging in my shop somewhere.
P.S. The chimney looks like an owl face!!!!![]()
Sometimes the hired help lived upstairs, and had their own external stairway.I have no idea, but I’ve seen it on older homes. Might be to get furniture upstairs, often steps were narrow with a turn.
Sometimes the hired help lived upstairs, and had their own external stairway.

In your and my World, if man stops pushing against Mother Nature she immediately reclaims her land.No hired help on any of our farms, that’s why there’s so many kids.
Obviously someone’s been messing with the house.
The people who live on other side of this property are friends with dad. They might be the ones who mows the fields around this house. Another relative used to keep grandfathers fields mowed, but he moved and those fields are now getting overgrown.
Another spectacular picture. My imagination goes wild. I'm gonna "steal" this one too Dennis.One of the property lines is roughly down this low spot. Note old oil tank from probably around 1900.View attachment 784046
Being an absolute auto nut as a teenager, I built dozens of AMT models!!!! I didn't have this one though....View attachment 784055
We hauled wheat in one like that when it was brand new! It was one Summer I worked for a custom cutter.
Another spectacular picture. My imagination goes wild. I'm gonna "steal" this one too Dennis.![]()
It's a bit small,,, but possibly!!!! Thanks for posting these.That might have been the water tank from hooterville.