I hear you Brother, and I appreciate your input.
I have a 2020 Ram 3500 DRW, Max Tow package, a Class A CDL and a 45' Big Tex 22GN goose neck, no issues towing my tractor.
Here is the deal on my "dealership"... it is a "Powersports" dealership close to me. They sell Suzuki / Yamaha Motorcycles, Can Am / Yamaha side by sides, Gravely and Ariens mowers, and Mahindra tractors.
They are a NEW Mahindra carrier, and the buying process did not give me much confidence.
I may look for a SOLID Mahindra dealer that I can take my tractor to, for you make some very valid points. I just want to make sure what's needed is done because I plan on keeping this thing for a long time.
Hope that lends some visibility on my trepidations.