Hello. I am also from central NY and I got a price from one of the big pole barn builders in the area. My pole barn is going to be 40x60 with 12' walls. The price I got was $33,000 for barn shell, two man doors, 6 windows. The building will be one color on bottom and another on the top. The price did not include any site work, gravel, or concrete. I had them price the material separately and that was $23,000. So the concrete, overhead door, gravel, and site work were all going to cost me more. I ended up just buying the materials from another place for around $18,000 which also includes a 12x10 overhead insulated door with electric door opener. I will build it myself. I already put in the run a crush for the 450' driveway to it, and in the barn itself. I did the excavation. Run a crush, $4,500. I am building it now and got a price for concrete installed of $6,500. These are just some prices that you can compare to what you are getting. Good luck to you.
Darren