kennyd, thanks for the reply. I've learned a lot from everyone on this forum.
Finally getting around to buying a 3 pt splitter. The hydraulics make a lot more sense to me now. If you run the return to the inlet that feeds the return to the 3 ph, you need to have a valve on the splitter that has an outlet side that can handle full hydraulic pressure (which will occur anytime that you operate any downstream valve, like the 3 ph, or FEL).
The alternative is to hookup the return to the tank instead of to the 3 ph (PB). The splitter will work fine, but your 3ph and FEL will not operate.
The best option is too have a power beyond type valve on your splitter (kind of expensive, though). This way when the splitter valve is in neutral position the flow will pass through it to the PB inlet on the tractor feeding the 3 ph and downstream valves.
I am no expert, but I haven't seen a post yet explaining it this way. So many posts that I've seen ignore that if you hookup your splitter via the PB circuit, you will expose the splitter valve outlet side to full pressure anytime that a downstream valve is operated. If I've got it wrong, please speak up. Thanks!
Keith