Don't get carried away tightening them.
I concur wholeheartedly. I tighten the binders to the point there is resistance and there is a bit of load in the tires of my tractor. I just want to make sure it doesn't fly away.
My chains always have a small amount...1/2 inch or so over 3 or 4 feet...of 'droop' in them. When forced (really forced...heavy braking or other 'extreme' situation), the tractor could move around inside a 1 inch or so bubble on the deck.
In fact, I regularly have "skid marks" under the tires on my deck where the tractor has done just that and the shuffling tires have left marks. Not that ANYONE could ever see the tractor shifting...the movement is imperceptible. But I don't have a massive amount of force unnaturally holding tractor to trailer. I just make sure it stays put.
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I treat this much like a bridge would be designed. Park in the center of any bridge span, and you can feel it bouncing from the other traffic, wind, and other forces. If a bridge was perfectly ridgid, it'd be impossibly large and it would absolutely CRUMBLE to the earth. Just doesn't work that way. Can't have a perfectly rigid bridge.
Similarly, you have to put an inordinate amount of force on a tractor to make it NOT MOVE on the trailer. Controlled adjustments to relive stresses imparted on the "system" by a variety of road conditions...bounces, twists, shimmys, wind, etc...is very appropriate and absolutely necessary.
Let me put it this way: Jump on one corner of your 8' x 20' trailer and guess what happens?
The entire trailer twists. It is NOT perfectly rigid (nor should it be).
So you don't want to MAKE your trailer become rigid THROUGH your tractor, do you? You are then making your tractor a STRESS MEMBER of your trailer. Bad idea. You just want to keep it there...nothing more.
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