I'm confused....are you concerned with the 3pt creeping down or with the FEL arms creeping down? How are your hydraulics hooked up? Does the same pump drive both 3pt and FEL simultaneously? Some do...and some have a separate FEL pump and reservoir.
I ask because most older tractors will creep down, but it takes an hour or more for most to do that. It isn't something you can watch in a 5 minute video. I don't mind either end creeping down if they do it slowly because like I said....old tractors do that. But I do expect them to stay up for an hour or so when I'm doing chores.
You have that knob that will lock the 3pt hitch. Is it working?? It should hold up just about indefinitely when the knob is closed. If not, its probably the 3pt cylinder/piston/rings. Easy to fix on a Yanmar.
On the other hand it it is the FEL And if you need the front bucket to stay up - and the cylinders are rebuilt good as you say - then I would guess you could just put a similar on/off valve in the loader hydraulic line. I've never actually done that, but it ought to work.
What one usually does if the FEL loader still drops after a cylinder rebuild is to replace the loaders directional valve block complete. Surplus Hydraulics has them for a few hundred bucks.
rScotty