I would agree that there are parts of the US and many places in Canada where EV would be of limited use during the winter and therefore not a reliable only vehicle, but, the Mason Dixon line is too far south to draw that line. EVs live quite happily in Boston for example. I wouldn't blink at owning one in Philadelphia or NYC either. It's really the upper midwest that has weather and distance to travel characteristics that argue against EV (but hybrids still fine). Even in Minneapolis, if someone used their vehicle primarily for commuting (not driving to Chicago or Denver), and EV would be fine in the winter time. Also, the entire west coast up to and beyond Vancouver would be fine. Maine up to Portland would be no issue. Not so sure about Bangor or north of there.
It is really a combination of expected weather, travel distance/range needs and taking into account that in very cold temperatures the usual range is cut in half that should determine whether EV makes sense for a given northern location. And, as lithium battery density continues to rise, that "Mason Dixon EV" line will continue to move northwards.
Bottom line, there are advantages and disadvantages to EV/hybrid just as there are for diesel or gas. Know your needs and make a good choice. But don't think that your choice will have much effect on whether or not EV/hybrid will continue to grow market share. Your great grandkids might well grow up considering passenger vehicles with pure ICE powertrains the same way we think of the horse and buggy. Cute but from a bygone era.