I don't think the shim on the bottom is going anywhere at this point... there must be 5 lbs of weld on each side. I didn't trust my welding skills, so I welded every inch I could access. But I think I can still make it work with a hefty piece af angle set in between the tines on the ends in front of the QA plates. Based on the fact that the shim did imporve it, I think if I stop the QA mount from moving any more at the top, it should work fine, but the better fix would have been to do what you did up front. The shim at the bottom makes the bottom bracket incredibly sturdy now
The grapple design is different from your bucket as the upper bearing surface is actually the main tube backbone of the unit. They would have had to add on an additional plate (like I will be doing) so it isn't as simple a case as yours, but that's no excuse.
Not having dealt with other QA mounts before, I wasn't aware the Kubota style was different at the top, so it wasn't obvious to me that the top was the problem. Mine was bought from Gator (same outfit, post-Markham) and they acted totally clueless when I called them on it. I even told them what tractor I was using and they still had no clue.
Thanks for the info!