Farewell to a dog

   / Farewell to a dog #1  

sassafraspete

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I remember the day my wife brought him home. He was probably a year old, had way too much energy, and there was a chunk missing out of the tip of one ear.

His short coat was soft, and I immediately noticed how soft and loveable he was to pet. And ohh, did he love to have those ears rubbed. I would get both ears and start rubbing, with my thumbs messaging them in short strokes. When making over him one day, I had my head down, and to my surprise he reciprocated by biting on my ear...not hard biting, but with several short nibbles that mimicked what I did for him. After that, I knew he was a keeper.

He had been a city dog, and I imagine purchased during a time when one of those Disney dalmation pictures were popular. After a few months, I am sure the owners found the dog to have too much energy, need more room, and generally had to get rid of him. He somehow found his way to one of my wife's friends. It was there that he had been put in a pen with a small yapper who liked to chew on his ears, thus the missing chunk.

I believe that he had been to some kind of training, as he was very well mannered, and never caused any messes while in the house....other than an early stage of liking to chew on things. During the winter , he often slept in our garage/basement. He was always so polite when wanting out or in...he had this unmistakable bark...that was very low and gentle. Boy did he like to run. None of the neighborhood dogs could stay up with him. You could see how his bloodline was bred to run beside carriages.

The end was sudden. No warning. No signs. I got the call at work in the afternoon, my wife crying, could I come home soon.

It was a miserable , rainy day, with temperatures dropping. When I got home, I went to his doghouse....the one he very seldom used...except for times when he couldn't get in our basement. My wife down on her knees with half her body inside the box....saying her own farewell....as the cold rain fell.

She had been in the house when she heard a howl, an unusual howl. She ran out to see what that was about, when she found him in the box...seemingly having a seizure....maybe a heart attack. Don't really know what happened.

With the next few days going to be below freezing , and daylight fast coming to an end, I put on my raincoat and boots and headed out to pick a fitting spot. I found one in amongst some cedars. A nice quiet spot. I dug, as the rain pelted down. Mud stuck to my shovel and to my boots. How many times had I done this before? None in the rain, and none as hard as this one. Me, an old crusty and tough guy. Was that rain on my face or tears coming down?

I laid him to his final rest, and after returning my shovels to their place, I just started walking out in the rain....hard rain, with my boots squishing water with every step. I must have walked over every foot of our 16 acres.

Having come in out of the wet, the cold, I remembered a new CD I had just bought that day by a guy named Andy Griggs...and in particular because of a song called "if heaven". It seemed weird that I had bought that only hours before my wife called. I sat back in my chair and listened. There must surely be a dog heaven.

Alex, goodbye my friend.
 
   / Farewell to a dog #2  
So sad to hear about your loss. We really get attached to our "children". Your message brought tears to my eyes too.

Bill Tolle
 
   / Farewell to a dog #3  
Remember, There is a Bridge


My friend, I’m so happy that you and I found each other
We are companions, not one with power over the other
Where I go, you go, it was meant to be
But there is something I want to tell you

Somewhere, in the greatness that we can only imagine
There is a bridge, it’s a great thing
When we see it, I’m sure we’ll be speechless
But we’ll see it, you and I together

I remember the day we met, you were so friendly and full of life
I looked at you lying on the floor begging for my touch
As happy to see me as I was to meet you
But remember, there is a bridge

Who’d have known that you had less than 24 hours to live
But on that day, when our hearts met
I felt a special warmth come over me
That no one can replace

Over the years we have played
We have run our hearts out
We have been so happy to be with one another
But remember, there is a bridge

As we take a walk, I talk to you
You looked at me as if you knew every word I said
As we relax, you just melt at my touch
Someday, I’ll explain where we’re going

The walks have now gotten slower
They have even become less frequent
We now tend to relax more than we play
But remember, there is a bridge

I’ve given you everything, as you depend on me
All I have ever asked in return is your friendship and love
And all the love you could give, has been mine
I sure hope I have become the man that you thought I was

My friend, out there somewhere is a bridge
It is called Rainbow Bridge
Whenever I see I rainbow, I know where it leads
There is no pot of gold, just happiness and health
One day we’ll cross it, but not one without the other
If you reach that place before me
Wait for me, as I’ll be there in due time
And I know that you’ll wait for me

There will be no illness or sickness
There will be no tears
There will be only smiles and laughter and frolic and play
The day we cross Rainbow Bridge
 
   / Farewell to a dog #4  
Your family has our sympathies. It sure it tough to lose one of the family.
 
   / Farewell to a dog #5  
RAINBOW BRIDGE
Just this side of heaven
is a place called "Rainbow Bridge".
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here,
that pet goes to "Rainbow Bridge".

There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends
so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine,
and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor;
those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again,
just as we remember them
in our dreams of days and times gone by.

The animals are happy and content,
except for one small thing;
they each miss someone very special to them,
who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together,
but the day comes
when one suddenly stops
and looks into the distance.

His bright eyes are intent; his eager body begins to quiver.
Suddenly he begins to run from the group, faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend meet,
you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again.

The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head,
and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet.
So long gone from your life
but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross "Rainbow Bridge" together……
 
   / Farewell to a dog #6  
Reading this brought tears to my eyes...our boy will be eight years old this month and I do not want to think about not having him around. Sorry to hear about your loss... /forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif
 
   / Farewell to a dog #8  
Very sorry to hear of this. It sounds like you two had a special bond.
It's a shame dogs don't live longer, but then it doesn't take them as long to learn how to love.
 
   / Farewell to a dog #9  
Thanks for that post.

I'm sitting here waiting for my wife to call so we can meet at the Vet. We have to go this morning to say goodbye to our 11 year old Keeshond. We got Keesha from a rescue society specifically for that breed of dog at 9 months old. She already came named and by the time we got her she had been passed around to a bunch of temporary homes. I guess that explains why we had issues of separation anxiety through most of her life. Keesha started losing weight in October and we were unable to figure out why but I guess it's time to say there's nothing more that can be done. I'm not sure why I'm posting this other than it seems to help to talk about it.

The kids will be crushed but I think I've prepared them for it. We had to put both of our 18 year old sibling cats down within 3 months of each other this time last year but they are much closer to the dog. My 6 year old keeps asking about her and I don't know what to say other than she's very very sick and we're not sure what will happen.

Jeff
 

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