Golden has one heck of a tumur.

   / Golden has one heck of a tumur.
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#41  
An update for those who remember this thread...

We had to put Chase to sleep a couple of hours ago. /w3tcompact/icons/frown.gif
She had been going rapidly downhill over the last week and
to be honest I don't know what was keeping that dog alive.
Love and Loyalty I guess. She had not had a drink of water
in over seven days. Real food in weeks. She was nothing but
the litteral skin and bones.... /w3tcompact/icons/frown.gif We thought we would
have to put her to sleep on Tuesday but she pulled some
energy from God knows where and kept on going. The vet
hydrated her on Tuesday but that was the last "water" she
could keep on her stomach. She had been puking as regular
as a clock for the last couple of days and today she just could
not get up to do it anymore. It was time.

We had guessed that Chase would get to this point today. We
managed to get our child out of the house, she is just to young
to understand, and schedule of all things a vet visit to the
house. I did not know vets would make house calls for
these things. Course its better than having the owner mourn
in the office I suppose...

The vet and an assitant came to the house which made things
so much easier for everyone. It was much better than having
to carry Chase to the car and into the office.

Its sad/scary/relieving that the drug does its job so quickly.
One second Chase is here and the next she is running after
her tennis balls in doggy heaven with her pain finally gone.

Chase was always a Lady in live and even at the end she
still was a Lady.

My wife had found a dog cancer list on the Internet and it has
been very helpful. A great group of people. They took a
posted picture of Chase and had it put on a mouse pad.
Chase is watching me now. They have even called long
distance to see how things are going.

I think the group is one of the reasons Chase lived as long
as she did. I reread my origional post and its been nine
months since the surgery. I was talking to the vet after
Chase had passed and the vet practice has been amazed that
Chase has lived this long. My wife has been fighting to keep
Chase alive for months with the help of the cancer group.
None of the vets thought Chase would live more than a
month or so.

There have been three different practices helping Chase and
they have all been great.

My dog Kelly, the GSD, kinda went bonkers during the
procedure. Kelly is a vocal dog, she constantly whines but
she knew something was up and really was not happy. She
settled down after Chase had passed. Somehow Kelly knew
through whatever mechanism that dogs have for such things.

Our daughter is the next concern. We have been telling her
that Chase is very sick, not like how we get sick and get
better. She has known and can see that Chase is not doing
well. When her grandmother was leaving with her she said
good bye to Chase and that she would see her tomorrow....
She is not staying at Grandma's tonight, she just thought
she was, so we have to deal with how she is gong to handle
Chase's passing....

Its a danged good thing that Dogs provide some much danged
Joy, Loyalty, and Love because it just hurts to $%^&*() much
when the have to leave us....

For those who like to tip a glass or two, give a toast to Chase,
The Loyal Lady.

Thanks,
Dan McCarty
 
   / Golden has one heck of a tumur. #42  
Dan,
So very sorry. I think Chase was lucky to have a loving family, and you were lucky to have her.
 
   / Golden has one heck of a tumur. #43  
Dan - My family and I are very saddened by your lost of Chase and you did the best you could for her. Watching any loved one go down is very trying on the soul. You and your wife should be proud of what you did and your conscience with her is clear.

When we lost our beloved Rottweiler (Spike) in September 2000, we too decided that we would have the vet come to our home to put him down as he was a very large dog 120 lbs+. The night before we were to take him, I sent my girls to town to get out of the house for awhile. I sat there on his blanket with him, held him and talked to him for quite awhile as he just laid there and looked up at me. He realized what he meant to us and he understood what I was asking of him and that was for him to just go to sleep on his own. I left him on his blanket for a short while and when I returned he had passed. I had always honored and loved that dog for how he took training, even from a pup, and how he always heeded me and was my constant companion and protector - when I found him I just fell to my knees and cried my heart out for him for he did exactly what I asked him to do even to the last. Its been over two years now and I'm still not over him. I don't think I ever will be. I buried him with marker on our property along one of our walking trails and get to see and talk to him everyday.

Now we have a new guy at home, a little half border collie / heeler mix squirt named Mick who at just over a year old is still busy tearing our house apart. But like all the others, he'll do just fine. It was hard to get another one when you know in your heart that they too will come to an end and I wonder why I continue to do it? I guess dogs have always been a part of my life and I'll always have at least one. I find something more satisfying in an animal than I find in most people I know.

I read something awhile back, that once made me feel alittle better, and thought I'd share it you. I don't recall the exact wording, and won't try to muddle through it, but the point of it is that the reason God made dogs short lived was to allow a person to enjoy many animals in their lifetime. And I'm sure we will.
 
   / Golden has one heck of a tumur. #44  
Sorry to hear of your loss. God bless. Based on what you have told us and your compassion for her, she must have been a fantastic pet and companion.
 
   / Golden has one heck of a tumur. #45  
Dan,
Sorry to hear about your loss. Hopefully the months in between the posts were good ones. A good dog does a lot of living in a short time. Our new German Shepherd pup turns 10 next month, and I haven't really finished saying goodbye to the last one yet. I hope it goes easy for you.

John
 
   / Golden has one heck of a tumur. #46  
I am sorry to hear that. I know how you feel. Terrible. I had my older male collie Sam (my first set) go to a vet college when he was old and was having problems getting his balance. I had thought he might have something like an inner ear infection. My vet was away and a temporary vet was there for several weeks and she said he needed to go to the Vet College--Big Mistake--he never recovered from the spinal tape they insisted he needed--I had to put him to sleep 4 days latter in my arms on the couch as he looked into my eyes. Our vet had come back and he came to my house to put him to sleep--He was very angry with the temp vet and the Vet School--he was furious with them. I have never gotten over the fact that he could have had a few more weeks of life in his home than being brutalized by strangers--returned to me a limp bag. All I can say is think twice before having an older dog have serious surgery or invasive procedures--they rarely recover and their last few days with you rather than being a final time of love and completion become a nightmare that will haunt you forever.
You did the best you could do--you did what you thought was right--I think I did at the time but never again. There is just no second chance to say goodbye to your friend. I will pray for you and your dog. All good dogs go to heaven, I do believe that. J
 
   / Golden has one heck of a tumur. #47  
Dan,

As someone who has had to put down a Golden I can not only sympathize but also empathize with you. Know that you did the best thing for your old friend. I know it's not easy. I lost Corey over a decade ago and I still miss her. It gets easier as time passes.
 
   / Golden has one heck of a tumur. #48  
Dan, my prayers go out to you and your family. Loosing a dog is like loosing a child. Hang tough and best wishes.

Gordon
 
   / Golden has one heck of a tumur. #49  
Dan, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. There are no words that will lessen the pain or replace your beloved companion.

Tim and Jane, Freyja and Seigir too
 
   / Golden has one heck of a tumur. #50  
Oh, Dan! Few things in life are as tough as saying goodbye to an old friend! Our thoughts are with you.

Peter and Tamara
Ragtag Golden Retriever Rescue
(and Molson, Glenfiddich, Tetley, Tuppence, Callie, Penny, Killian Red, and Sunday.)
 

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