There was a guy on the local AM radio show about a year ago who wrote a book on getting grants. He said that he applied for ever grant there was, without regard to his qualifications to receive the grant. some or based on sex, race and other factors that he was not a member of, but he was awarded them becasue nobody else applied.
My parents could not afford to pay for my college education, so I went to junior college and paid for it myself. They never charged me rent and fed me, so all I had to do was come up with enough to pay for tuition and books. I droped out and went into the Marine Corps. After the Marines, I tried again, but was able to make more money working then most of the people I knew who had degrees. It was the wrong decision in the long term, but I droped out again. In my view, it's my biggest failure, and one day I want to go back and get my degree. My Dad received his BS when he was 62.
I think that having to work and go to school at the same time was more then I was able to do at that time in my life. More mature and responsible people do it all the time, but that wasn't me. I don't know if I would have stuck it out if I didn't have to work at the same time, but I think it would have been more likely that I would have. It's easy to look back and say "what if?"
Eddie