OK another update:
We went through her deposition (2.5 days)
A pack of verbal contortions and wierd projections ie: She sees me in my yard writing, well off the easement: so one ingredient of the my "harrasement" to her for which she should be compensated is that: "He was sitting there in those dark sunglasses/forums/images/graemlins/cool.gifwriting down license plates as we drove by" : /forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif
It was ridiculous. Also my attorney see no substance to back their claim of pain and suffering and would consider requesting tossing that part out but then we would lose insurance coverage.
Next we had mediation again. That went as bizarre as expected. Their lawyer huffed and puffed right from the start, so even the mediator decided she couldn't communicate with them well, so she ask my attorney to talk with them (He's the good cop). We presented an engineered plan of an alternate road to get them to their property near their house. They said they want it to go all the way down to where they park now - twice the length, twice the price.
That was it. Back to the drawing board. No one (except ME) wanted to examine other questions - who will own the road etc. Considering the neighbor's fragile attitude ( I guess she was alternately laying on the floor or just sitting in her chair shaking her head no no no to everything) they convince me to step back until we show a third road alternative. We agreed to look into a third alternative and everyone behave until we meet again. Well on the way back from mediation the neighbor, with me standing just a few feet away, again drives beyond the edge of the existing road, even brushing against containers we have, not only beyond the road but also beyond the 20' dimension of the easement! and accuses us of building a fence within the easement. He had his surveyor come out - he was wrong - the fence was well beyond the easement.
Last week we rushed a surveyor to draw a third alternative which gets down to the lowest area on their property by winding down through their property. Twice the length, twice the $.
We went to mediation with plans in hand last Friday. The neighbors were NOT THERE. Just their lawyer.
I was pissed. Everyone assured me, this was better cuz the lawyer knows everything and she was being hysterical anyway. Seems this was a long planned trip that they knew about but didn't want me to know they are gone for an extended time cuz I might vandalize their house or something...
Anyway now their lawyer sends this plan off to them in europe, we get rough estimate of costs and we check back in two weeks /forums/images/graemlins/mad.gif
Medical and psychiatric exams of them are scheduled.
Meanwhile the insurance people are making noises like they just want to throw a little money at this and get out, no matter who is right or wrong.
And the court date (Halloween /forums/images/graemlins/smirk.gif) is just 7 weeks away.....