Great story, Stony, thanks for sharing.
Here's how I tackled the same situation on my land several years ago.
I spent a lot of time finding people to take any furniture and doors in the house. The day after I took the glass from the windows, I was approached by a local guy asking for any other bits. I was only too happy to oblige, and he took frames, trim, windows, and finally the entire staircase and bannister (in one piece). He used these pieces to restore a similar house on the other side of the valley which has since been recognized for it's historic representation.
While I did save some boards, most were too far gone, rotted, full of nails, etc. I would have loved to have the same dumpster you did, but I couldn't get one in to the site easily. This was also before I have my Kioti, so I used the rented excavator as shown, then hand sorted and loaded onto my trailer to take to the dump anything that shouldn't be burned.
Parts of the house were over 100 years old; the chimney brick did not come apart from the mortar unfortunately. I did find a book in there from 1889.
Nice cleanup on your site. Hopefully you will not find any extra nails with your tires...or did you already?
Jon