BlueMule, RuffDog, and Scootr;
Thank you. Your comments seem to mirror my experience exactly. I do not have a box blade and after purchasing the Grader Scraper I won't be able to get one either (shot my wad on the GS.....based mainly on recommendations from this site).
Went out this morning to "practice" some more and I found that tilting the implement back just a little bit really helps. But, as Blue Mule said, where it's soft, it just digs. And if damp (I had watered the material down last night to help compact it), it digs up "clumps". Holding it up just a little with the three point helps, but then it follows the up/down movements of the tractor (which a box blade would do too).
I suspect that my expectations are a bit high. I hear that it spreads gravel "as smooth as butter", so I expect smooth.....like asphalt. Maybe for an experienced operator, with the right moisture that is true. But, so far, I haven't found that to be the case.....for "too dumb to fall off a rock" me. It's a gravel road so I guess I have to be willing to accept that I won't be able to make it (or keep it) as smooth as (butter) pavement.
I have concluded (from my own, limited, experiences as well as comments here) that the use of a Grader Scraper is a bit of black magic and not as simple as "drop and drag".
Tomorrow, I have another 20 yard load coming out to be a top coat over what I already have down and for the remainder of the driveway. I plan to do the best I can with the Grader Scraper.....because that's what I have. On Friday, I have a roller reserved so I'll compact it more then (I already have somewhat compacted what I have already put down by running my truck over it a dozen or more times). "Maybe" super lightly go over it again with the GS held up some after I compact.....but not sure if I dare as I don't want to screw up what I do with the compactor.
Thank you all for your comments and suggestions.