That's unfortunate. There are small yearlings this time of year, not "babies"' but 40 or 50 lb antler less deer. In my state, they are legal to kill on days does are legal, and anytime with archery. I would have a problem with his trespass, especially if he in fact shot the deer on my property w/o permission. If he shot it on public land, and trailed the deer onto my property, I would have no problem, but he should have asked permission first, if possible. And that permission should always be granted. But sometimes you can't really verify where it was shot.
I feel your pain with your new age wife. My wife (now ex-wife!) was like yours. Vegetarian, hated the smell of diesel, or powered lawn equipment, and anything hunting. Funny in our advanced "civilized" state, many have lost touch with the natural world of human existence, all the while claiming to be "all natural." My funniest example was the time one of her health food buddies, knowing I owned many acres of forested land, asked her if I could provide him with some logs so he could inoculate and grow edible mushrooms. I told her, of course, i could do that for a friend. But told her to have him meet me, we could select the perfect size and species of tree, cut it down, section it into logs, and he could have his logs. Easy. She was flabbergasted. Being a true green nature lover, tree hugger vegetarian type, she exclaimed she didn't want me to cut down a tree, just collect some logs! Like logs just appear on the forest floor. She couldn't understand why I laughed at her ignorance and detachment from the natural world of reality. Just like how cats shouldn't eat mice!
Sadly, fewer humans really understand nature, while having the false illusion of being advanced.
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