Your using some facts but are not taking all parameters into consideration, so your voicing your opinion.
The lifting force of the tractor is determined by measuring the force applied by the 2 lower arms. The top link is has the pivot load, and for the most part is along for the ride. The TL does not pickup the entire load. If all things were equal it might have 1/3 the load or 1833
As with the first law of hydraulics (Pascal)- Pressure exerted on a confined liquid will act with equal force on all areas. I'm guessing the hydraulic pressure is set for a max of 2500 psi, and if the load increases where the pressure inside the cylinder increases above that setting, the pressure relief valve will open. This keeps hoses and other things from rupture/damage
The main load on the TL is from push and pulling. So the 2 inch cylinder should be more then enough, and I'll also guess this is why the smaller cylinders are listed for Cat 1 tractors by many vendors.
So we just have a difference of opinion based on the facts they we each choose to use.
I'm using a 2.5 inch cylinder, and 1/4 inch 3000 psi lines, to help slow the cylinder and provide more surface area for the load