Re: I\'m an unnamed local celebrity!
I tried to stay out of this one but I just can't.
I played both soccer and rugby growing up. I played organised soccer from 9 years old until I was 30, when the pressure of work forced me to quit. Let me say that soccer is the ideal sport for any child to play. Why? ... because you don't need to be a physical "specimen" to play it. American Football ... takes 60 players to make it through one hour, half the team weighs over 300 pounds and can hardly jog never mind run, can't be played without body armor, etc., etc. Basketball ... better physical condition than football players but under 6' you have little chance of playing major college ball and practically no chance in the pros so essentially your competative sports career ends at 18. Soccer .... any size, any weight, any height, you can play, participate and contribute to your "team" at some level. What does it teach kids? ... if you want to compete you have to be in good physical shape, teaches them to work with others to achieve a goal (sorry about the pun), teaches them to control aggression, not deny it but to control it. It takes speed, stamina, heart (try sticking your unprotected head in where boots are flying), forethought and planning, anticipation, in fact, all the attributes that go towards building what we call "character" in a human being. Since you basically play the whole 90 minutes, there is no place to hide if you make a mistake on the field or are having a bad day. You just suck it up and continue to give it your all ... continue to compete. If you don't, you're letting down 10 other members of your team and that's probably the one thing they won't stand for. There's no taking yourself out of the game in soccer unless you're physically unable to perform.
As far as the violence thing is concerned, soccer has the potential to be an extremely violent game but since neither you or your opponent has any protection, you learn to control that aggression. If you don't, you are removed from the field and again leave your team short handed and facing probable defeat.
When I read opinions like yours on soccer I always write it off as you have never played the game and don't understand it. But please, don't demean what are probably the best professional athletes in any major sport and don't deny your kids the chance to paticipate in a sport that instills in them the characteristics that help make a good human being.