If you will think about how a hydraulic cylinder is built You will understand why a double acting cylinder will NOT have the same force after it develops the same pressure both ways. It is because of the rod in the way, taking up space on the rod side of the cylinder. Therefore there is less surface area for the fluid to push against. The cap side of the cylinder has X amount of surface area. The rod side of that same cylinder has X-R where R is the surface area taken up by the Rod. Sure the developed pressure pushes on the sides of the rod, but that does not do useful work.
So that is why ANY hydraulic double acting cylinder has much more force one direction than the other direction. Also the amount of fluid needed to fill up the cylinder for a given flow rate is less one direction (filling up of rod side) than the other direction (cap side) because there again you have that rod in the way. Also for a given flow rate, the cylinder will fill much more quickly on the rod side than the cap side.
Once you have this triad of surface area, fill volume and fill rate understood, you won't have any more questions.
Once you understand that open center (like 99 percent of our tractors have) system pumps DON"T make pressure either, but instead make flow, you won't have any more question about pumps or relief valves either.

Understanding this will also help you understand why there is some heat generated in hydraulics system components like valves, and hoses, and why a gauge will show some pressure even when the fluid flow is not being directed to any cylinder or motor. Because there is resistance to the flow of the fluid going thru the plumbing and valves. And that resistance builds some heat. And it also develops some pressure. No where near full relief valve pressure, but a small amount.