Wayne County Hose,
So what are you going to do with your free hand while you're waiting those agonizing seconds for the wedge to come up to the log? What better things does it have to do? It can't be that "hard" to hold the lever for that little bit... Or is it just a little bit of laziness?
A detent on the push stroke is suicidal at worst and foolhardy at best. Would you trust your healthy hands to the faith in that detent kicking out at the "proper" time?
Come on man, get your head on straight. I know that you're smarter than this, at least I hope you are... maybe not?
Sorry to be so harsh, but sometimes it takes a 2x4 between the eyes to get the mule's attention...
In my life, I've split a LOT of wood with a splitter, and I've pinched my fingers once with my splitter... and to this day I don't know exactly how it happened or why I had my fingers back there. I know for sure it scared the **** out of me. And, I thank God that I had the presence of mind to let go of that lever, and THANK GOD it didn't have a detent. Don't believe for a second that you'll NEVER have your fingers in the wrong place... it happens, believe me. And it only takes one time. I got lucky. If you put that valve on your splitter, I guarantee that you won't think fast enough to kick that thing out of detent before your fingers are smashed or severed.
Do the math... even if you can get that detent to kick out at as low as 100psi, with a 4" cylinder that's about 1256 pounds of force that your fingers might have to stop. I don't know about yours, but mine wouldn't be able to do it without letting out some red juice I'm sure.
And, I'm pretty sure that when you yell, your wife will let go of that lever RIGHT NOW. That detent doesn't hear so well... you'll have to yell pretty loud.
Don't do it, OK?
