Losing my beloved Tetley

   / Losing my beloved Tetley #11  
Pete, we had our dog put down on june 13th this year and I still catch the wife crying from time to time. As much as we loved her, I'm not sure we'll go through it again. We had her for 16-1/2 years. You are in our prayers.
 
   / Losing my beloved Tetley #12  
Sorry to hear about your dogs condition. Wife and I have had dogs most of our life. Its always hard to let go. We enjoy the memories of each one. Our prayers are with you and your family.
 
   / Losing my beloved Tetley #13  
Sorry to hear the horrible news Pete.
I think your making the right decision, but it's so tough either way. Stay strong buddy!
 
   / Losing my beloved Tetley #14  
Boondox,
I've never met you nor your Goldens yet this post saddens me. Judging from the other posts you've struck a chord with a bunch of other TBNers as well.

My thoughts are with you and yours and especially the Goldens.

Phil
 
   / Losing my beloved Tetley #15  
Pete,

Our prayers and sympathies are with you my friend. It's a hard thing to face for sure, but it's because of all the love you have for Tetley and his love for you, that you will do what is best for him when his time comes. May God Grant you the strength and the knowledge to know when that time is.

In the meantime, spend all the time with Tetley that you can, just loving on him and him loving on you.
 
   / Losing my beloved Tetley #16  
Pete,

So sorry to hear about Tetley. We have a golden (15 months), and know how special they are. I went through the same situation with my beloved sheltie a few years ago, and decided to put her down instead of the surgery option. God bless.

Steve
 
   / Losing my beloved Tetley #17  
Pete, I wanted to add a few more comments.

To all, if you've ever had the priviledge of having a well bred Golden Retriever you'll know what I mean. There is something so special about their love and devotion. Once they bond to you and realize you belong to them, not much else can satisfy them. Putting up with all the hair is not a problem for all the love you get with it. I am a dog lover and definitely am not trying to start any kind of "best dog" flamewar.

Heck, when I was single about 5 years back my mother said I need to post an ad in the personals something like this:
Good man looking for a good woman with a personality like a Golden Retriever. /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif
 
   / Losing my beloved Tetley #18  
Pete I'm so sorry to hear that. I know your dogs are like your children. I feel your pain and the hole you must have in your heart and in the pit of your stomach right now is tremendous. At least you have some time to spend with him before he goes and let him know how much you care for him. I'm sure a dog as great as him is going to have a very special place in heaven. My Grandpa once told me when I lost my favorite horse ever that God must have needed him for a very important task in heaven...
 
   / Losing my beloved Tetley #19  
Pete,

Sigh, we know how you feel. /forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif

When we found the second set of tumors on Chase, the vets operated on her to take them out. Very early in the operation they came out to talk to my wife and told her that the cancer had spread. Did she want to just go ahead and put Chase to sleep.

We decided not too. Its a tough call and no right or wrong answers. Ironically, I guess it gets back to the answer I gave you over the chick. /forums/images/graemlins/blush.gif We made a decision and I think it turned out for the best. The vets only gave Chase a few weeks. She lasted for six months or so. During her last few weeks it was obvious that her time was approaching. And we knew when it was time....

Its tough to know when animals are in pain. They hide it so well. I don't know how much pain she was in but she seemed to be her old self until the very end. She would get tired easily as time went on but she was still her old jolly self. I swear that dog lasted on just pure love until the very end. She simply did not want to go.

My wife and I knew when it was time. I think Chase did as well.

We spent alot of money on Chase and Thorpe. Money that would be real helpful right now. But I don't regret one cent on what we spent keeping those dogs alive. We had three different vet practices helping Chase. She got the best we could give.

I think we have talked about this before. Both Chase and Thorpe. And the fact that we had Chase put to sleep at home. It was easier on everyone. Its an option not many people know about but some vets will come to the house and put the animal to sleep at home. It made things much easier for us and more importantly, Chase.

These critters give you part of their soul when they are with us. The danged hard part is that they take part of OUR souls when they leave.

Which is how it should be....

Later,
Dan
 
   / Losing my beloved Tetley #20  
You should "always go through it".

Two of our most loved dogs I've "found" (and who knows what of happened if I "did not pick them up").

The joy that a dog can bring is unknown to some people.

It's amazing the difference in attitudes in some areas as far as domesticated pets are concearned.

If you can "give a home" to a dog in need, by all means do so (your life will change forever for the good).

You get back what you put into them (and much more than you'll ever realize).

And the life that you "change" that you take into your home will forever be gratefull, even if you may not realize it at the time.

God bless.
 

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