If you have a good DVM, hook the black lead to ground; set range to DC ONLY, and DEFEAT the auto range with manual range selected to around 100 volts - this should allow the meter to NOT see the several hundred volts AC, just concentrating on the approximately 20-30 volts DC, IF it's there - a good flame and flame rod will still bounce around enough to drive autorange CRAZY, hence the manual range/DC ONLY setting.
If all goes well, you should read around 20-30 VDC, but it can go as high as 100 at times. You should use alligator clips, NOT handheld. If this heater follows what I'm used to, that DC voltage will be NEGATIVE (RED lead clipped to center of flame rod, see pic in parts manual - 99% of my experience is with industrial stuff, but this looks like a baby brother so it might actually be true :laughing:
Sounds like we're gettin' to the meat of this... Steve