Everything was fine for about 8 years and no problems at all. During that time I had been slowly cleaning up the fields surrounding my property and removing all the rocks, boulders, oddball trees & sapplings. In 2004 I was ready to install the lawn. Plowed it all under, regraded and brought in topsoil as needed. It came out pristine as a golf course. Lotsa of jealousy for sure. Upon completion, my neighbor commented that he wanted to remove the fence as he felt it was an eye sore...more likely-he was tired of taking care of it. The cross rails were just basic 2x4's with a stain coat applied. They'd last a couple/few years and rot away. So once again I informed him I would definitely continue the tree line when I had the $$$. I refreshed his memory about what would likely happen if he removed the fence...and after all the work I just did installing my lawn I sure as heck didn't want to deal with all the bafoons turning around in my yard and causing damage. He agreed, we made a gentlemans agreement and shook on it. So much for his word........
Fast forward to 2007...I guess my neighbor couldn't wait any more and early spring he removed the fence. He didn't say anything to me so I figured ~maybe~ he was going to continue the tree line. Nothing was said or done and exactly as I had predicted...once again countless vehicles used my property as a turnaround area and caused damage. The sad part is many of these vehicles were friends and visitors of his and his family. I kept my mouth shut the whole time and watched these ignorant disrespectful bafoons all summer long. Until one day, late summer I reached the breaking point...
On occassion my neighbor would have a party or whatever and his visitors would park along side of his driveway. The fence and my first planting of arborvitaes would keep the visitors where they belonged. Now that the fence was gone it became a free-for-all and one day during one of his parties, a young kid was trying to park. It was obvious he didn't know how to parallel park, so he just drove onto my property cut it hard and left it. I literaly snapped and blurted out...NICE ####ING PARKING JOB ###HOLE!!! yeah I should have kept my cool but lost it. After months of abuse I couldn't take it anymore...self control or not. I'll skip the rest of the details or I'll never finish this lol
A day or so later my neighbor comes and pays me a visit. It turns out his elderly parents were within earshot when I blurted out...they were hidden behind the arborvitaes walking to his house. I apologized immediately, not that I expected it to do any good. In addition I also told him..."listen, whether it be your parents or mine, or even the POTUS for that matter, I would have said the said exact same thiing!! Doens't anyone have any common sense anymore?" I asked him about the fence and the agreement we had...his reply..."well that was 3 years ago"
Knowing this conversation wasn't going anywhere and now knowing his word meant nothing, I walked away. Next day I went and purchased 100 or so 3' stakes and put them where the fence used to be. talk about an eyesore! I didn't care as long as it kept his visitors off my property. Next I hired a surveyor and had the property line properly marked. I did that because at the other end by his house I never knew the exact boundary other that what he told me and what the seller of my property showed me. They were both wrong as I found out!!
Next I located someone that had the 200 arborvitaes I needed and could plant them ASAP! This cost me dearly as the new arborvitaes wer 6' tall, unlike the first set that were only 2-3' tall when planted years ago. However what really smoked my neighbor was the fact that not only did I plant where the fence line was, I also continued another perpendicular line to his driveway right in front of his house with the trees. Not only did I eliminate the spectacular view of my lawn from him...thats another story!!...it also kept his teenage kids from having their wild parties in my yard...yep another saga there as well. I had as much right to plant these trees as he did removing his fence. I suspect I may have affected his property value by planting in front of his house, but so what! He should have gave more thought to the placement of his house when he built IMO! Not my problem and as a result of his breaking his word with me, I really was only interested in what was in my best interest not his. I even told him after the fact..."listen, you are free to do as you want with your property as I am with mine. You gave me your word that the fence would remain and you broke that word. Since I no longer trust you and have no respect for you or your property anymore, deal with it like I had to deal with what you did" Harsh? yes and well deserved all things considered IMO
I'll continue as there's more...lol told ya it might get a little long winded!