MarkV
Super Member
- Joined
- Apr 7, 2000
- Messages
- 5,636
- Location
- Cedartown, Ga and N. Ga mountains
- Tractor
- 1998 Kubota B21, 2005 Kubota L39
Does anyone on this forum ever think of being "neighborly" and sharing rather than paranoid and selfish?
You country folk like to rag on city/suburban dwellers but frankly the urban envirnoment sounds like heaven compared to the mean spirited attitudes expressed by some of our country bred members here.
Where I live we don't shoot neighborhood dogs, we don't have that many fences and the ones we have are to keep kids from getting into the street. We share community tasks and generally aim to bend over backwards to help each other. I though that was the sort of life people in the country were proud of but what I see posted here is nothing more than paranoid isolationist mumblings accompanied by gun toting trash talk.
Frankly, I'm surprised as my bias (and experience) has always been that people in the country were more conscious of and involved with their neighbors at least partially because you depend on each other more. I guess not.
+ one here IslandTractor. :thumbsup: I am so glad that some of you responding to this thread are not my neighbors.
I moved from the city to the country and was a foreigner in my area. I understood that most of the neighboring families had been in the area for generations. It is not an affluent area in general and everyone is suspicious of new comers. People from the city are the rich people and always want to change the way things have been.
My wife and I took the approach of introducing ourselves, our dogs and offering to help if any of the adjoining property owners ever needed it. We gave them contact info and said how grateful we would be if they would give us a call if they ever saw any problems on our place or with our dogs. I don't let people fish or hunt but if they want to ride their horses down the power line on my property, rather than the road, why not. We have met their critters and if they show up we send them home or call then. I have 2 acres of finish lawn and more wooded. A couple of hoof prints are not going to affect the overall look of my place. Revenge is vicious in my area. You have to be careful if you are the new guy. It's unlikely we will ever be looked at as locals, you have to have been born here for that, we are now excepted as good neighbors though.
I read a mention of goats in the OP's future. I hope he understands that goats are notorious for getting out. Sure helps to have good relations with the neighbors when you are looking for missing goats. Just saying.
MarkV