I am a little confused as to where you want the fluid to go.
The loader will work on just about any GPM, the more you provide, the faster it will operate.
The same with the fluid for the drive motors, the more you provide the faster the machine will run.
Since most of your parts have about a 3000 psi rating, why not boost the relief pressure to 2500 psi or higher.
The pressure is what provides the torque or power. More pressure more torque.
Something else comes to mind. Since you have 7 GPM for the attachments and not used all the time, that potential HP is being wasted until you add that flow to the drive circuits.
Here is how I envision how it might work.
Bump up the pressure.
The other change I might make is to feed the flow from the stacked valve through a PB port and feed a tee with check valve at the input to the motor valve.
Now, you have the 14 GPM flow and the 7 GPM flow from the pump gong to the drive circuit, and when you use the attachments, the flow is reduced for the time you are using the loader. As soon as you release the loader lever, you are back up to speed on the drive motors.