Automatic or not, you still need a transfer switch correct?
Legally you need a transfer switch so you can't backfeed the utility or come in out of phase. The ones I have worked with have one source on the top, other on the bottom. Off in the middle. There are some that ratchet, but more common will to just raise and lower.
We were just discussing this today. Some people want auto so stays on if they are away from home or the sump pump. There is a value in that. Though I am also concerned about rationing my gas or propane.
Its not a matter of feeling spoiled. Need to decide what works for your case. Are you worried about house flooding or freezing? I am, but will probably still go manual.
I have been looking into home temp monitors, and humidity. This technology has gotten incredible cheap. I got lights at my home and camp, I can turn on and off with my phone. $20 a single pole light. Still deciding on which wifi monitor to use for temp. I don't want to use a t-stat, cause I am paranoid about some hacker or defect driving my heat up or down. Not hacking me personnally but just the company. But lots of people have do have wifi t-stats. If so you will no if heat goes out and have to come home. Lose signal and will also know power is out.
If I had natural gas, I might lean towards auto, if you got better unit that would respond to loads, and not use a lot of gas. But I have propane, and want to conserve for a prolonged outage.
Also some women might not be able to handle pushing the button to start it, as funny as that sounds.