If your cycling 3 to 5 times a day, that would put you without water for close to 2 hours a day. From the sound of it your well tech is a blithering idiot. One 84 gallon preasure tank is more than enough to service a house. I use a 2 inch well with a 12 gpm Sta-Rite deep well pump to supply water to mine and my sons house with no loss of preasure even with two washers, dishwasher, and showers running sometimes all at the same time. If your downhole pump is putting out 25 to 28 gpm simply set cut in switch to cut on at 50 percent of your storage tank and do away with the cut out on booster pump.
That way you are looking at a 5 min refill cycle,unless you are irrigating at more than 25 to 28 gpm you would never run dry. A third tank, piping, slab, building, check valves, and you are already into a 4 figure tab for a fix that any reputable well tech could do for under $100. I would bet that your tech can recomend a cement finisher to do your slab and a carpenter to build your well house and of course he will give the best deal on the trenching and pipe work. As with any operation I would get a second opinion befor I went under the trencher.