Just for information, your fathers 5' squealer model is a light duty cutter, not a heavy duty. As your aware there is t really a standard among manufacturers but the generally accepted "ratings" would consider the bush hog squealer a light duty model.
If all your cutting is grass and less than 1" material as it seems, then a light duty cutter like your fathers would be a good match.
I personally think the 6' model would be doable with your pto hp.
I spent yet more time online today researching. I decided that it would be iffy when the grass grows up heavily, along with the other brush.
I got a decent deal on the land pride rcf2060, and decided I'd rather cut 5' well, than 6' poorly. It also has 10ga metal on the deck, which was heavier than my father in law's shredder.
Maybe if I see a light duty 6' shredder come up on Craigslist, I'll think about it in the future for maintenance later.
I may regret not having the 6' cutting path, but I'd regret the thing performing badly even more.
All the responses and insight were very helpful in evaluating my choices!
Mark