A few ideas.
1. Whenever you use an adjustable wrench, turn it over so that when you push the adjustment nut with you thumb, it is tightening as you use the wrench. Always keep pressure on that nut to ensure the jaws are not opening as you apply pressure.
2. If there is room, put the vise grips back on and gently tap with a hammer. Lefty loosey. Make sure you are not striking hard enough for the jaws to slip. Don't give up the first couple of minutes. Each tap, even if there is no visible turning, is loosening a thin layer of debris in the threads. I put one hand on the vise grip handles and apply a little pressure. With the other hand, I tap with the hammer. Just make sure the vise grips are turned so you are tapping on the back, not the belly.
3. If all else fails, drill it. You can use a small hole to put an easy out into (reverse threaded tapered screw), and if that fails, you can drill larger until the thin core of the plug releases enough pressure and contact that you can turn it out. Two things are critical. You must start the drill hole in the center of the plug. That is a tough job but critical. Second, do not advance to a drill bit so large that you drill out the female threads.
There are other techniques but are not safe to do on an engine. Take it slow and easy. One mishap can cost a lot of time and money. Best of luck.