What everyone else said. I sympathize with you, G.H. I was miserable last summer. One big ball of stress and blubber. It was ruining me. My ability to work in the heat was diminished, and my back and knees hurt all the time. Long story short, last August I called B.S. on it, and started my non-diet diet. Eating better stuff (and less of it), walking every day, unplugging a little more. Down 50 lbs or so in one year (Tomorrow!). Feel great. I am in a normal/acceptable BMI range. Cycling 4-5 days per week, and walking the other days. Still watching the food intake. As you say, don't deprive yourself. I still have a beer everynow and then, and maybe a trip to the DQ for a mini (or small) Blizzard once a month.